Some thoughts on this cat(less) situation.

hurairah · 02-03-2012, 05:11 PM

Hi guys.

Okay just to give a quick rundown of the situation. Let's say I have around a year left to stay where I'm at, and then it's possible I move elsewhere to another country where it would be hard to keep a strictly indoors cat due to a bunch of circumstances.

Would it be a horrible idea to adopt a cat at this time? I'm pretty much 90% sure it would make me a horrible person to do something like that, because I'm probably leaving very soon and can't take it with me, but I'm wondering if anyone here thinks it might have benefits for the cat.

Basically, I don't think that it's nice to adopt a cat and be like "hey kitty you have a new home :'D" and then be like "k sorry gtg lol" and put it in another shelter (dunno of any friends that'd take it as of now). It would suck badly for both myself and the cat, because I'm sure I'm not gonna want to leave it, and I'm sure it too will probably be sad.

You're probably wondering why I started this topic since I already seem to have a pretty strong opinion on the matter. You're right, I kind of don't have a good answer to that question. All I can say is, I love cats and I would love to adopt one, but I'm gloomy knowing the circumstances. I'm just posting this in an off-chance that someone might tell me "actually, you should do it because of X great reason" even though I'm kind of skeptical given the circumstances.

I'd just like honest opinions. If you think it's a horrible idea, just go ahead and tell it to me straight, that's what I made this topic for. To encourage me if it's a good idea and I don't know better, or to deter me from an unwise, unjust decision that I'm already suspicious of.

Sinatra-Butters · 02-03-2012, 05:15 PM

Unless you are willing to make a 20 year commitment to the cat I don't think it is a good idea.

shan841 · 02-03-2012, 05:16 PM

Have you looked into fostering? I would not adopt a cat knowing that you will most likely need to give it up in a year, but if you want some companionship and you want to help, look into local rescue organizations. You may be able to care for some kitties and help them get ready for adoption!

Fran · 02-03-2012, 05:17 PM

Why don't you look into fostering or helping cat rescue projects? There's so much need. There's more than one way to think this through...

Fran

P.S. Everyone has the same idea....

MowMow · 02-03-2012, 06:16 PM

It seems a bit selfish to adopt a cat only to turn around and rehome it or doom it to be put to sleep at a shelter.

I agree, offer to foster and worth with rescue.

feedmycats · 02-03-2012, 07:04 PM

The others pretty much said it all already. If you haven't fostered in the past, you should definitely consider allowing yourself the experience. It's an unselfish act that is just as fulfilling and rewarding as cat ownership, if not more so! You learn so much about feline kind, about yourself. At some point in time maybe you'll be in a different situation where you can give a cat a forever home. Just because you can't provide that right now doesn't mean you can't provide kitties the bridge to their forever homes.

There is definitely a lot of need and not enough foster homes to help them get them to the forever homes they deserve.

Good luck!!

BotanyBlack · 02-03-2012, 07:12 PM

as others have stated, don't adopt if you plan on just turning around and sending it to a shelter in a year. Definitely look into fostering, a lot of cats need a foster while they wait for a forever home. And you would have the satisfaction knowing you will be saving one from being PTS while it waits for its new home.

hurairah · 02-03-2012, 07:27 PM

Wow awesome guys, I didn't even know you can do this. I'm going to have to look into this some more, but there are some issues I'm kind of worried about.

You see, by getting a cat or two that I know will be mine, I can choose their personalities such that they can get along without my presence. This is because often times I am busy from early morning to night outside the house. Because of that, it could be difficult for me to meet the needs of a cat that is more social, and with fostering it seems like I will not have control over that element like I would choosing a cat or two for keeps.

I feel like fostering might mean a lot of time commitment to that cause and that it's not practical for someone as busy as I am to take up. I'm a full time student with a job, but I am free during the weekends.

BotanyBlack · 02-03-2012, 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hurairah

with fostering it seems like I will not have control over that element like I would choosing a cat or two for keeps.

Not to sound critical here.. but you did say that most likely if you got a cat in a year it would go back to the shelter. This does not sound like a "for keeps" situation. If it was a "for keeps" situation, you would be looking forward to 15+ years with the cat not a 'just for now" time period.

MowMow · 02-03-2012, 09:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hurairah

I'm a full time student with a job, but I am free during the weekends.

If all you have time for is a weekend pet, get a goldfish.

02-03-2012, 05:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
hurairah Kitten Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 8	Some thoughts on this cat(less) situation. Hi guys. Okay just to give a quick rundown of the situation. Let's say I have around a year left to stay where I'm at, and then it's possible I move elsewhere to another country where it would be hard to keep a strictly indoors cat due to a bunch of circumstances. Would it be a horrible idea to adopt a cat at this time? I'm pretty much 90% sure it would make me a horrible person to do something like that, because I'm probably leaving very soon and can't take it with me, but I'm wondering if anyone here thinks it might have benefits for the cat. Basically, I don't think that it's nice to adopt a cat and be like "hey kitty you have a new home :'D" and then be like "k sorry gtg lol" and put it in another shelter (dunno of any friends that'd take it as of now). It would suck badly for both myself and the cat, because I'm sure I'm not gonna want to leave it, and I'm sure it too will probably be sad. You're probably wondering why I started this topic since I already seem to have a pretty strong opinion on the matter. You're right, I kind of don't have a good answer to that question. All I can say is, I love cats and I would love to adopt one, but I'm gloomy knowing the circumstances. I'm just posting this in an off-chance that someone might tell me "actually, you should do it because of X great reason" even though I'm kind of skeptical given the circumstances. I'd just like honest opinions. If you think it's a horrible idea, just go ahead and tell it to me straight, that's what I made this topic for. To encourage me if it's a good idea and I don't know better, or to deter me from an unwise, unjust decision that I'm already suspicious of.

02-03-2012, 05:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
Sinatra-Butters Cat Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: St. Paul, MN Posts: 2,912	Unless you are willing to make a 20 year commitment to the cat I don't think it is a good idea. __________________ Becky, the proud momma of:

02-03-2012, 05:17 PM	#4 (permalink)
Fran Cat Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: California Posts: 1,914	Why don't you look into fostering or helping cat rescue projects? There's so much need. There's more than one way to think this through... Fran P.S. Everyone has the same idea.... __________________

02-03-2012, 06:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
MowMow Premier Cat Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Pacific Northwest Posts: 5,642	It seems a bit selfish to adopt a cat only to turn around and rehome it or doom it to be put to sleep at a shelter. I agree, offer to foster and worth with rescue. __________________

02-03-2012, 05:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
shan841 Tom Cat Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Parkville, MD Posts: 471	Have you looked into fostering? I would not adopt a cat knowing that you will most likely need to give it up in a year, but if you want some companionship and you want to help, look into local rescue organizations. You may be able to care for some kitties and help them get ready for adoption!

02-03-2012, 07:04 PM	#6 (permalink)
feedmycats Cat Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Arizona Posts: 174	The others pretty much said it all already. If you haven't fostered in the past, you should definitely consider allowing yourself the experience. It's an unselfish act that is just as fulfilling and rewarding as cat ownership, if not more so! You learn so much about feline kind, about yourself. At some point in time maybe you'll be in a different situation where you can give a cat a forever home. Just because you can't provide that right now doesn't mean you can't provide kitties the bridge to their forever homes. There is definitely a lot of need and not enough foster homes to help them get them to the forever homes they deserve. Good luck!!

02-03-2012, 07:12 PM	#7 (permalink)
BotanyBlack Cool Cat Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Ky. Posts: 1,428	as others have stated, don't adopt if you plan on just turning around and sending it to a shelter in a year. Definitely look into fostering, a lot of cats need a foster while they wait for a forever home. And you would have the satisfaction knowing you will be saving one from being PTS while it waits for its new home.

02-03-2012, 07:27 PM	#8 (permalink)
hurairah Kitten Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 8	Wow awesome guys, I didn't even know you can do this. I'm going to have to look into this some more, but there are some issues I'm kind of worried about. You see, by getting a cat or two that I know will be mine, I can choose their personalities such that they can get along without my presence. This is because often times I am busy from early morning to night outside the house. Because of that, it could be difficult for me to meet the needs of a cat that is more social, and with fostering it seems like I will not have control over that element like I would choosing a cat or two for keeps. I feel like fostering might mean a lot of time commitment to that cause and that it's not practical for someone as busy as I am to take up. I'm a full time student with a job, but I am free during the weekends.

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