Oh, and as for your conflict question, there are many girl bonded kitties out there. Mine happen to be a boy and a girl, but I am thinking of adopting a third kitty (girl) on Monday or Tuesday. One of the workers at the SPCA told me that once cats are older adults, they MAY have trouble accepting a new kitty. She said that at that point, boys are more accepting of a new one than girl cats are, especially if it is another girl you are adding. I would take another guess, however, and say it probably depends on the kitties again. If your two are starting out as kittens together, they likely wouldn't have any problem since they will be growing up together.