Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: indoors most of the time
that's cute, like everyone else said, it's playing.
my oldest cat lets the middle one groom her and they fall asleep curled up together. sometimes the youngest one will start grooming her and she gets annoyed and swats him away. (she's 16, he's 3).
the middle and the youngest are very tentative with one another. the youngest often beats up the middle one, so any grooming lasts a very short time but at least they're trying. they never even used to get on the bed together.