I'm just want a freakin' job so I can move out and be able to control some aspects of my life. Living with your parents is fine up until the point where you realize that they have faults and are just as spotty as any other human, and then it goes downhill from there.
Mind, I love my mom. As long as I don't try to have a serious conversation with her, we are fine and awesome. However...
Well, my most recent complaint is that I spend all day re-painting my little sister's old room for them, have done all the chores they ask of me, try to stay out of the way WHILE taking care of their dogs and giving them treats and tlc, and what do I get?
I will tell you what I get. Every time I try to talk about things that are important to me, I only need to say one sentence into a convo I want to have, and no matter how freakin' politely I form it, I get yelled at. Whether it's 'Mom, I've been depressed because a 4 year friendship ended, and when you make statements of how I need to improve it only sends me spiraling down worse.' , or a joking (as in, I am laughing while saying it) 'so, does me doing all these chores mean I can get a cat or tattoo?' the only reply is a raised voice and some stab at a flaw that I have.
Especially fun since ten seconds later I am still reeling and mom expects things to go back to normal, despite me telling her I do not work like her and my sister do A MILLION TIMES. Which is ANOTHER freakin' conversation that I cannot have without getting sniped at.
Emotional health does not seem high on her priority for me.