It's been over a year.

Sukey · 10-19-2009, 12:42 PM

And I still miss Sukey; to the point I cry over little things like seeing kittens in a petstore. I just miss him so much. I'd had him since I was three, his death was so sudden and unforeseen. I get so mad people abandon their cats, it seems all I want is to have mine back. Is grief like this normal? Just thinking about him, like now, is making me cry.

Mitts & Tess · 10-21-2009, 02:17 AM

It sounds like you had a strong bond with Sukey. What a gift each cat is, in our lives journey. You will see him again. Im sure he knew your deep love for him. My heart goes out to you.

Sukey · 10-21-2009, 08:01 PM

The funny thing is Sukey was one of those big, tough males who will purr when you pet them...and suddenly realize they dropped the tough-guy act for a few minutes and then he'd attack your hand. He was a pretty standoffish kinda guy. Picture attacking ankles from under chairs, then that same cat coming crawling up on your chest purring when you have warm milk.

Ahh that cat...

salsachick · 10-21-2009, 08:32 PM

He sounds like a great cat! Every single one of them is so unique they really do leave little paw prints on our hearts.

I think it's okay to still be sad. Babette is still the wall paper on my telephone. I can't bring myself to change it.

10-19-2009, 12:42 PM	#1 (permalink)
Sukey Kitten Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 8	It's been over a year. And I still miss Sukey; to the point I cry over little things like seeing kittens in a petstore. I just miss him so much. I'd had him since I was three, his death was so sudden and unforeseen. I get so mad people abandon their cats, it seems all I want is to have mine back. Is grief like this normal? Just thinking about him, like now, is making me cry.

10-21-2009, 02:17 AM	#2 (permalink)
Mitts & Tess Premier Cat Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Arizona USA Posts: 8,360	Re: It's been over a year. It sounds like you had a strong bond with Sukey. What a gift each cat is, in our lives journey. You will see him again. Im sure he knew your deep love for him. My heart goes out to you. __________________ ~Merry~ With my eyes, they will be seen...With my voice, they will be heard.... With my hands, they will know comfort...With my action, they will be free... ~TNR and Rescue changes lives of animals.~

10-21-2009, 08:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
Sukey Kitten Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 8	Re: It's been over a year. The funny thing is Sukey was one of those big, tough males who will purr when you pet them...and suddenly realize they dropped the tough-guy act for a few minutes and then he'd attack your hand. He was a pretty standoffish kinda guy. Picture attacking ankles from under chairs, then that same cat coming crawling up on your chest purring when you have warm milk. Ahh that cat...

10-21-2009, 08:32 PM	#4 (permalink)
salsachick Jr. Cat Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 43	Re: It's been over a year. He sounds like a great cat! Every single one of them is so unique they really do leave little paw prints on our hearts. I think it's okay to still be sad. Babette is still the wall paper on my telephone. I can't bring myself to change it. __________________

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