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post #11 of 24 (permalink) Old 04-19-2012, 07:55 PM
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HUGSSS to you. RIP to your special friend, Simon.
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post #12 of 24 (permalink) Old 04-19-2012, 11:45 PM
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I'm so Thankful to u all..........But someone tell me...........How long till I quit crying everyday and missing him SO MUCH!! This really hurts my heart!! (sorry for being a crybaby!!)
Mr clyde's left the planet almost a month a go and I still cry every day......and I was a commercial fisherman for almost 30 years........so keep crying and don't let it bother you........
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post #13 of 24 (permalink) Old 04-19-2012, 11:53 PM
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Rhen, I cry for my Samson every day too. I don't think there's a magic number of days or weeks to reach before it's easier. We love our fur-babies so much it's not easy letting them go.

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I don't think there's a magic number of days or weeks to reach before it's easier. We love our fur-babies so much it's not easy letting them go.

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^^^This.^^^

It's been just over a year since I lost my baby boy, Smokey, and it still hurts. I think, in my case, that it's more guilt than anything. Just the wishing that I could have caught on sooner that my baby was wasting away, questioning the three women who fostered him for me when he couldn't stay here due to his FeLV/FIV+ status, noticing how pale his gums were getting. I noticed that he wasn't himself on January 9, 2011. He went into cardiac arrest on January 14, 2011, 12 hours after being taken to the vet earlier that morning.

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post #15 of 24 (permalink) Old 04-20-2012, 09:56 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss of Simon. He was absolutely beautiful.

I know how heartbreaking it is. I try to tell myself -- the cat actually had the easy road. They just fell asleep the same as when they fell asleep at home. We're the ones who have to endure the loss. We're basically taking one for the team, all because it was so valuable for us to have a cat in our homes. So I don't know, that makes me feel better. You're taking one for the team, so be proud of that.


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THANKS everyone! I have only join this site a few weeks ago and I already feel the pleasent vibe from you all!! Thanks a million!! You all made me feel a lil better!!~~Lisa
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Its been a whole month.............Y am i still sooooo sad??
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post #18 of 24 (permalink) Old 05-04-2012, 11:32 AM
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Its been a whole month.............Y am i still sooooo sad??
It can take a long time.....seven weeks since Mr Clyde's passed and I think of him all the time and I still cry every day......you miss your boy very much... as I miss mine........
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post #19 of 24 (permalink) Old 05-04-2012, 05:36 PM
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A month is not that long to grieve. He was a part of your family for a long time. It's just hard. It does get easier with time. A journal/scrapbook with pictures is a good idea so you can remember the good and fun times you spent together.

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I am so very sorry for the loss of darling Simon He looked like a very well-kept cat and I am sure he had a great life with you!
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