Hi, im quite new to having cats and when we brought Shadow home he was so little i set up his bed in our room. The frist few nights he slept in the room but not on the bed then he started to take himself downstairs. His bed is now on the landing outside our room and sometimes when i was up with the baby in the night he wanted to come in the room and play, i just shut him out it didnt take long for him to understand and now he wakes up but stays in his bed and doesnt try to get in room.
He also understands that i dont mind him sleeping with me on the bed when my hubby is working nights, i have no issue with him wanting to come in when hubby is off nights. Once you set the rules they are quite good at following them, i have found anyways xx
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