Thanks again AddFran...She's about 6.5 lbs. maybe I'm feeding her to much lol

Actually I know she sneaks in nibbles of the dry food that I feed the younger guy. I'll have to monitor that and use your 1 oz per pound as a reference. But I feel better about the amount she's consuming. Seems to be right where she should be.
Now the younger one on the other hand chases me around the house darting in and out of my feet looking for food

maybe I'll try withholding the dry food and leave the wet out for a bit longer to see what happens, maybe offer it to him a few times before giving into the dry food.