Are boys affectionate?
I had my boy Dude, for 15 years. He was affectionate in his own way. He likes being near me, but not on me. And he hated being held.
Jamie, my girl, slept on my chest the first night she arrived and has been my lap cat and snuggle partner ever since.
I now have a new boy kitten, Joker, and I'm dripping affection on him. He will be held for a little while, then he gets squirmy. He will sit near me, but not on me.
So, the question for you all.
Are any of your boys very affectionate or lap cats?