A Not Very Social Cat. ):
Well, I've had Zazoo ever since she was a kitten. She's probably around seven or eight years old now. She's never been very loving or cuddily, but she seems to be getting worse - the older she gets. She always wants to be in the same room as us, but she never wants to be held, petted or anything. I can tell that there are times when she wants to just come up and lay with us, but it's almost like she's afraid to. She sees the other two cats lay with us, and us petting them - so I don't understand why she thinks that it's not okay for her to come be with us as well. I've tried going down on the floor with her and laying by her, well not right next to her - I give her some room to herself so she doesn't feel like I'm invading in on her, and she'll lay there for a few seconds with me, but she always gets up and moves away. I've also tried petting her while we lay on the floor; but as soon as I go to touch her- she's out of there.
Is this normal? Is there something I can do that will let her know that its -okay- to come and be with us?
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