You're missing a big part of the game....the part where he says "Tag, you're IT!!!"
Seriously, he's just taking his time to get to know you. Take advantage of his pre-feeding love to give him some good neck and head scratches. Eventually, he'll start wanting the attention as much as the food. good luck
Herdmaster of 16 Cats & 1 Dog
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