Originally Posted by princesskitty
I would be extremely upset also. To me that person isn't a friend. A friend would support you in your time of need no matter what the circumstances.
I just joined so I don't know much about your situation but I am so sorry for you lose of your little babies.
I totally agree with Princesskitty : that person can't be a real friend. Because even if he doesn't give a **** to pets, knowing that it is so important to you, he should have at least tried to comfort you, trying to find the correct words to make you feel a bit better instead of acting so selfishly
Sometimes my hubby talks to me about subjects I'm not specially fond of such as sports, or cars. Well I listen to him and even have a conversation about it because I know he likes it. I'm not going to refuse talking about it just because I don't like the subject...
Well your friend should have acted exactly the same way. It's a question of kindness.
In fact, that person doesn't care the way you feel... and doesn't deserve your
But I'm not surprised. I've had the opportunity to speak of animals to people who are not animal lovers. When I say that I give money to associations such as the SPCA, they reply "and to think of all the children who die of hunger !"
That makes me go out of my mind ! There's no comparison ! And after all, it's my right if I want to give my
money to the wellfare of animals ! Most of the time, people who criticize are those who don't give, not even for the children !