Does my cat hate my boyfriend because he misses him?
Long story. I brought my female cat Moria,1 year old, from the small apartment i shared with my boyfriend in Argentina, to my family´s big house in Chile during the summer. She loves the house, not so much the 2 male older cats that live here. Still, they get along decently.
In the meantime, my boyfriend is visiting his own parents house and has come to visit twice. Moria, who loved him, slept with him, played with him and purred like crazy, can´t stand him. Hides and doesn´t let him touch her.
That´s not all: she does this with all men in my house. But LOVES the ladies. Still, weird that after 3 months living with a guy, she suddenly just forgets him in a week and treats him like a perfect stranger?
So, I have 3 theories:
- She remembers him, but is angry because he´s not here with her. So now she ignores him.
- She forgot him and is just scared of anyone big who talks loud (she´s only been in this house for a week).
- She actually has a bigger problem with those big male cats that already live here and she doesn´t really trust, and therefore takes it out on all male beings: cat or humans. Can this actually happen? I mean, she´s just TOO easy with women, and some she hasn´t even met before.
What do you think? What to do?
Last edited by meowyn; 12-27-2010 at 10:03 AM.
Reason: *SHE* misses him