Hi fellow cat lovers, I have a bit of an issue and I'm not really sure what to. Well, not really an issue. I know what I should do, which is get rid of her by being aggressive-ish and not pulling stupid faces when she looks at me. I should get a micro-chipped cat flap and install that, so she cannot get in...
Anyway, about two months ago I was in the back garden playing with my two cats;
When I looked up at our shed and saw this lovely, chunky, cat staring at me. So I said, "aren't you beautiful!", looked at her (sure its a female, even though she is really big and chunky) and smiled, she then made this loud scream and came down flopped at my feet and showed me her belly.
Well, since then she has invaded our house, much to the distress of our other cats. We have cat flap, that she continuously comes in; she has been going under our bath (we are decorating at the moment), so I put a blanket down for her as it was cold - I know, I should have not done this but still, she was coming in and I could not have her sitting on cold concrete. Since then, she is in every night and won't go - we have to spray her with water, but she comes back in. She comes over and eats our cats food.
And we, me and my partner, have made the situation worse - haha, she is one of the most vocal, beautiful, loving, affectionate and playful cats we have ever seen, she even makes Barns seem boring - we had this opinion of him, and for the life of me I just cannot be horrible to her, to make her go away. If I put the cat flap up, which annoys our cats because they can't go out (it also makes them think its the vets time - as we do this so we can get them in the cat carrier, which freaks them out), she sits there making noise as if she is in distress. And I cannot bear hearing cats in distress, freaks me out.
Also, our cats were in front room the other day, so we brought her upstairs and put her on the bed - both amazed at how loving she is, how much fun. It was like having a new toy to play with.
Here is a few pics of her;
She must have an owner or being fed, as she has a lovely coat and is not afraid of humans -well, I do find that cats come up to me in the street; I think they can tell if someone is a threat - even a 14.5 stone fairly big man like me.
I just wish my cats would come round to her, but its unlikely they will. They are 12/13 now and pretty set in their ways. Barns is not so bad, but Smegs is freaking out - he won't eat and looks panicky; which is wrong.
My partner says I'm being horrible towards them, but this cat - we call her Beral - is special. When we come in, she is on our begs, on the side in the kitchen and the cats do not seem to mind. Its only when she is near us do the cats seem to get the ass.
What would you do - I know the answer, haha. I should be faithful to my cats, who I love dearly, and put a cat flap up with a chip, so only they could get through it. But I would soooo love if we could keep her..