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post #1 of 3 (permalink) Old 02-02-2015, 07:19 PM Thread Starter
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Unhappy Hey from the Caribbean - cats not getting along

Hi cat-lovers. What brings me here is the need for advice. I have two cats, male and female both about three years old. I recently adopted a loveable stray but am having some problems with him, mainly he is aggressive to my female while apparently adoring my male. It has got so bad that the female can't enter my house with his flying at her and pursuing her out the door. He is about one year old and neutered and has only been around for about three weeks. I am thinking about taking him to the local animal shelter.....but feel awful about it.
Any advice?
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post #2 of 3 (permalink) Old 02-03-2015, 05:18 PM
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Your two cats had a happy life it seems until this stray decided to stay in your home. Others may give different advice, but I would be taking him to the animal shelter to be adopted into another home. I'm assuming your female is spayed? If not get her spayed and see if that makes any difference. If she is spayed, for whatever reason he dislikes her, and imho is unlikely to change his mind and is determined to drive your girl out of your house and will just make her life miserable.

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post #3 of 3 (permalink) Old 02-04-2015, 09:50 PM
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I have to agree with Catloverami, and your first loyalty should be to your First cats...it sounds like the new boy is making her life miserable...and thats sad, it could even have repercussions on the relationship between your first two...
Try finding the new boy a good shelter, where he can find a good home!
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