So, this is my first time ever using a forum I believe but I REALLY need advice about a peeing issue...
I have two cats, a female small calico, shes spayed but had a litter of kittens once, she was a stray but I believe kicked from a house since she was litter trained already...
The other is from her litter, male, adult now as well and has some anxiety and is much bigger than his mom, they both are rather clingy to me as well if that's important.
I live with my parents still and well, there is peeing out of the litter box in the front room of the house, on a large leather sofa and other places like corners and such.
It's only peeing, and one of them is definitely still using the litter boxes (theres two, one in my room and one in the laundry room next door.)
They both get used so I assume the peeing in their isn't the only spot one will go, I don't really believe both are peeing out there but I'm not going to toss the thought out.
We get some strays outside of our house so we thought maybe it was the mom being territorial since she isn't very open to other pets...
Lately the mama kitty has also gotten fairly rough with her son, they used to play rough generally but now she randomly bats at him and bites and meows, and has even started hissing!
The son was a generally super scared cat and I had him wear anxiety collars for a few years, like the purple ones that smell nice? But I slowly spread out the time before replacing them as he got used to everyone in the house and now he just wears a normal collar.(the safe easy release ones)
I also put calm scent things, I had in my room, in the front rooms in hope that it would deter the peeing... no avail. My father stepped around the front room shining a black light and finding a LOT of spots around. A few don't make too much sense, like they seemed akin to a dog peeing, like in the center of the room or on the leg of the pool table.
We do have dogs, two big ones and one small, they are outside dogs though but my sister convinced my parents recently to let them sleep inside at night in her room to keep out of the weather and spend more time with them.
I know that's a lot to unpack and chew through, I tried to include as much info as I can in hopes for some help. My parents make some sharp and nasty comments that I think would make everyone on this site uncomfortable and it's really grating on my nerve and mental state. I really just want to figure this out, get happy cats and fix the problem.
If anyone would spare some insight I'd be really REALLY grateful.
<3 Thank you