Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Cobourg, Ontario, Canada
So even tho your cats are "fixed" or neutered and spayed, some males are still interested in trying to mate. Since your female is protesting, I would, even tho she keeps going back for more, because of male's weight I would be concerned that he could hurt her. Try distracting her with a wand toy, or other toys that she can bat around on the floor such as foil balls, ping pong balls, plastic spirals (available at pet stores), and give your boy catnip mouse, or drag a cord around behind you. Get them into more play with you or toys. If you're unsure that they'll be safe when you're away from your home, then separate them into different rooms. Looking after young cats is like babysitting 2 y.o. kids, you have to be observant and vigilant.
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