Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Cobourg, Ontario, Canada
I need a good night's sleep or I can't function the next day, so I have never let my cats sleep in bed with me at night. However, they do enjoy a late afternoon nap with me before dinner. My suggestion is that you try and keep them out of the bedroom at night. Set them up in another room with their heating pads, and give them a meal to eat before bedtime in that room and then close the door. If this other room is on another floor from your bedroom, it would be good so you don't hear them---put in ear plugs if do. Just ignore all the fuss, be consistent, and eventually, they should look forward to having their late evening meal in their room. Also, a radio left on, may soothe them. As for Blueboy's bullying, that's normal behavior, and since he's just doing it to bug Daisy, but not drawing blood or being vicious about it, I wouldn't worry. Hope you have good zzzzzs and pleasant dreams!
"There are no ordinary cats.";"Time spent with a cat is never wasted."~ Colette
"A loving cat can mend a wounded heart." ~ Unknown Author
Alkitotle aka "Alkee", "Lambie" (July 2/04 - Oct. 2/15) -- white Devon Rex
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