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post #1 of 12 (permalink) Old 11-16-2010, 06:25 PM Thread Starter
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Dont know what to do... Relationship advice?

I cannot believe Im asking about this on a per forum but, I need help.


I am in high school, I hope Im aloud to state that. I don't know if it makes a difference, but this all seems so teenage.

I have a boyfriend, right, and his ex girlfriend is trying to torture me into breaking up with him. She spread rumors that I was using him to get another girl jealous, that I was shallow and only dated him for his looks, and that I was cheating on him with the most rude, ugly, close minded, angry person in my school.

She hates me, and she just told me on facebook to break up with him, because she wanted him back, and that she only broke up with him because someone else said he would ask her out, she said that she loves him(if she loved him why would she break up with him for some guy she barely knows?). And she said he's going to break up with me for her, but I know its not true.


And I think she's trying to scare me, because(as embarrassing this is to admit) this is my first serious boyfriend. And I think she's abusing it.


I dont know what to do, if anything. She is ruining my life, my friends are telling me not to give up on him and just to stick through it and it will get better, but I'm, not sure.


So really, I feel crazy, but What Im asking is just what to do.

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post #2 of 12 (permalink) Old 11-16-2010, 06:32 PM
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Tell her to get a life.

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I did, she wants mine.

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post #4 of 12 (permalink) Old 11-16-2010, 06:39 PM
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Can't you discuss the situation with your boyfriend? HE should tell her that he isn't interested, and if you are afraid that he is interested in her, he's not worth the trouble.
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Tell her that your boyfriend is obviously not interested in her and that she needs to move on. Get him to tell her the same thing.
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post #6 of 12 (permalink) Old 11-16-2010, 07:44 PM Thread Starter
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Im talking to him tomorrow.

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post #7 of 12 (permalink) Old 11-16-2010, 08:20 PM
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First, delete all her posts from your Facebook page. Then block her so she can't post anymore or SEE your page.

Then borrow someone's car, and when you see her walking ...

wait, that's going too far. Sorry....

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Delete her from facebook and if she persists tell her she needs to take her meds because she is clearly not well. Talk about it with your boyfriend and you should be fine.

Also, don't be embarassed about it being your first boyfriend, you're only in high school!
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First, delete all her posts from your Facebook page. Then block her so she can't post anymore or SEE your page.

Then borrow someone's car, and when you see her walking ...

wait, that's going too far. Sorry....


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Delete her from facebook and if she persists tell her she needs to take her meds because she is clearly not well.

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First, delete all her posts from your Facebook page. Then block her so she can't post anymore or SEE your page.

Then borrow someone's car, and when you see her walking ...

wait, that's going too far. Sorry....
This. It's not that hard.
She's obviously some jealous tart who needs a good whack.
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