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post #1 of 15 (permalink) Old 01-28-2005, 10:54 PM Thread Starter
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Hey i was just wondering.. what does everyone do to get over that 'special' girl or guy?

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post #2 of 15 (permalink) Old 01-28-2005, 10:58 PM
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post #3 of 15 (permalink) Old 01-28-2005, 10:59 PM
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Well the opposite of "break-up" is "break-down", but that's not recommended. Keeping busy helps me though.
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Try not to dwell on it, move on. Go out with friends, try new things, take walks, go places you've never been before, try out a new hobby. Basically I would just do anything time consuming.
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i write how i feel, in poems (they don't have to rhyme) or just a paragraph or two. and cry a lot. however, i don't think i've ever been *really* truly upset over someone. i just perpetuate the drama. i can change how i feel, normally, in an instant. i'm too rational for my own good sometimes, so i overcompensate by acting emotional sometimes when i don't need to and know it won't help the situation anyway.

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Also I should add that I've never had to deal with a break up, so my suggestions might not seem right.
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post #7 of 15 (permalink) Old 01-28-2005, 11:27 PM
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+1 on staying single, but it's extremely difficult at times. I never find break-ups easy, even when I do the breaking. My last GF was a complete screwball and made my mental health worse than ever, but I still found walking away tough. I spent too much time with her.

Best thing is to go out with friends and find activites to take your mind off of it.
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post #8 of 15 (permalink) Old 01-29-2005, 12:38 AM
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Go out and keep yourself occupied with friends. You may not want to but it really helps. Don't dwell on it that much, there's plenty of fish in the sea
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Dye my hair and go out with good friends. I haven't dealt with a breakup in years, though.
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post #10 of 15 (permalink) Old 01-31-2005, 08:31 AM
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I agree with many of the others. Keep yourself BUSY. Busy, busy, busy.
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