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post #1 of 20 (permalink) Old 07-24-2005, 09:54 PM Thread Starter
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don't know what to do-so sad

We got another puppy. A female named Lucy. Me and her had that bond that just clicks. Today at the farm she died. I ran over her with the truck. I couldn't see her. It was so sad to look at it. It's the worst thing that's ever happened. All I do is blame myself even though I know I shouldn't. I keep saying if i had let her in the truck when she wanted in this wouldn't have happened. How do you move on from something like this? is it possible?

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post #2 of 20 (permalink) Old 07-24-2005, 10:03 PM
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I am so sorry ((((((((Raiynee))))))))

Don't blame yourself, it was accident. You didn't mean to hurt Lucy.
I cannot imagine how heart breaking it was for you to have that happen and to have to see her body like that.

I don't really have any words of advice on how to move on. I just wanted to give you a HUGE hug.
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I don't think one ever gets over such a thing. One simply moves on.

I accidentially killed a whole litter of puppies when I was in second grade. I never forgave my self, but I treat my five cats right and it is a solace. I saved five cats after I killed five dogs, it was the only thing I could do to make myself better.
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Thanks for the support..I appreciate it. I guess its right that no one ever gets over it. It's just so hard. And then you get those people that are like "it's just a puppy". I'm glad to have my cat though, and we still have our other dog. I guess it's just a matter of being sad for a while.

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I am soooooo sorry. *BIG HUGS*
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I keep thinking i'm going to wake up from this aweful dream. that i'm going to walk out of my room and say her name and she's gunna come running and bouncing to me. That if i just go to sleep and wake up in the morning i'm gunna see her happy little face looking up at me. It's not fair. I figure God must have really liked her to take her so soon but no matter what i think I still feel sad and can't stop crying.

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post #7 of 20 (permalink) Old 07-24-2005, 10:40 PM
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Did it happen really recently?Do you have pictures of her that you will be able to keep?

I am so sorry that you are hurting and missing Lucy so much. Reading this brings tears to my eyes i am sure she knew how loved she was even though her time with you may not have been long.

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In your heart, you probably realize that in time the sadness you are feeling will fade.
For now, just know that it's all right to hurt...
I hurt with you.
It's all right to cry...
I share your tears.
It is only through crying that you learn what it's really like to laugh...
only after feeling sadness can you really experience joy.
So allow yourself to feel what comes natural...
but know that someday life will be better...
it will be easier to smile.

- Renee Duvall
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It happened today. I love the poem. We have pictures. If i had a scanner i would put some on. She had one blue eye and one green. she is beautiful. Thank you guys all so much.

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I don't know what to say to help.

Lots of hugs going your way

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I am so sorry. I know what it is like to blame yourself after something like this happens. It is a natural instinct. Time will pass and the sorrow will ease, even though it doesn't feel that way now. Lucy was your friend and your baby, not "just" a puppy. Don't minimize your sorrow, just feel it and mourn for her. It is the only way to heal.

Rest in Peace sweet Lucy. You are loved and will be missed dearly. You won't be forgotten. You live on in the hearts of those who were blessed to be a part of your life.

((((((((((hugs))))))))))
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