Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Northern California
A tad confused but really excited
So last night I went down to SJ to see Tim, he took me all over (aka cheepy date) and showed me his old schools while reminiscing about his teen years and earlier. While we were wandering about the subject of children came up which led to the question posed by Tim to me, "What kind of wedding should we have?"
Now this actually took me by surprise, whenever we talk about that kind of thing it's me who initiates and him who eventually mentions that wedding talk scares him. but this time it was HIM who started it, and baisically asked me to marry him.
We spend a really fun hour an a half going over what we want, like who should marry us, where, how many guests and how many in the bridal party, things that make a girl giggly inside.
The confusing part really is that I'm not sure if it really was an offer for engagement. We've been dating for almost a year and 8 months (on the 20th) and I know a wedding would be a year or more down the road. and I know and am ok with the engagement without a ring thing. and I have been on the knot for a while, 'cause of all the wedding talk here and actually fount THE dress and dresses for the bridesmaids and flower girl. Am I jumping the gun here? or is it a good idea to start looking at things?