Thank You Chris,Sockispus, and Crystal. My family is doing a lot of stuff similar to this event and it is really starting to make me think that maybe I am the crazy one because they all see it as normal.
I have only really had family support from my sister and her husband. Without them I would off my rocker by now
From day one I have had almost no support from them. I just helped do a bunch of stuff for my sister's wedding at the end of July though. A marathon week of tying up lose ends and helping with anything I could. At one point my Dad told me that he was so proud of me for everything I was doing for them even with everything else going on in my life. That is the sum total of support from my parents! For those two minutes I felt so much better.
One of my aunt's sees him still too. AND after seeing him she will tell my parents how he says he misses being at home and other things. He should have thought of that before wanting to leave me for another woman huh?! I am not too thrilled that she repeats things! Luckily she is going away in a month for about three months so I will get a break from that
I am really getting to the breaking point where I want to just step back from them and not see them for awhile.
Socksipuss you didn't make me angry getting angry at my parents you made me smile!
you should see my sister's reactions when I tell her these things! I think I am furious....but she blows my reactions away with hers. Unlike me, I am timid when it comes to saying things that may potentially cause upset between my parents and I, she will just say it right to them. I had to ask her not to say anything until I do!
I did call my parents on something related to the separation last month, and while they didn't really apologize I felt better for telling them (and proud that I didn't end up in tears!)
Thank you to all three of you for your responses! I am going on a mini holiday in a few days but I will send my parents the email (that way they can't twist my words) before I go!!
I know I will feel better then!!