Great friend came out
So I don't know how to react to this. I had this great friend in high school, and still(like a super best friend). We were such great friends that we figured we would try to date but it was like kissing your brother type feeling so we called it off. We hung out ALL the time, I loved to listen to his piano playing(he was extraordinary) and we loved each other, just in a friend type way. I've never been closer to a guy, everyone I dated hated him because of how close we were. Hubby was always jelouse of him, we always hugged or what have you. I've known him for 11 years. He never was really into dating, in fact I was his first kiss. I just got an e-mail from him. Now I'm all freaked out. It's an odd feeling, like crying, wondering how I missed it, and every other emotion you can think of. He said that he has finally been honest with himself, that he met a guy, they've moved in together and he's in LOVE! I'm so glad he's happy but... WOW! That was just out of the blue. They're going to Costa Rica for College break and Hawaii(where I'm at) for his... boyfriend's 10th high school reunion this summer. I haven't written him back yet, I'm afraid I'll say something to offend him, my tummy's twisting into a knot. I really do think it's great he's happy, he's had so many dating issues before but this is really a shock. What should I say to him???