I've come into some frustraiting times... I just wanted to talk to someone about what's been happening with me and Brad before I explode.
I married Brad back on October 31st Brad wanted to join the Air Force in November. The recruiter he talked to said that he should be able to get him in in the middle of November... and never gave him a strait answer about anything other than that. November came and went and Brad found out that the recruiter was trying to use him for his next "period" or whatever... because he probably already met quota or something. He didn't talk to Brad much about stuff - no matter how much he asked. Then by the time December rolled around we KNEW they weren't going to let him go in... because they said they didn't want to put anyone in during the holidays.
So it was January before we knew it... and he had to go to an Army Recruiter just to get himself measured... and found out he was overweight...
He is very broad as well as tall - so I'm not so sure he could EVER meet the body weight requirements... to do so he would have to saw off his legs (hehe). He needs to be at 20% body fat... he now has 4" to lose off of his waist.
It's been over three months since we have been married... and we still don't even know if he can join due to health issues because he still needs to lose the inches. I feel like I am in limbo or something. I'm still living with my parents and he his... because we believed that was best for what we were trying to do.
I rushed out of school so I could be with him now... and I'm not. We rushed to get married to be together... and we're not. It's not so horrible - but I am getting really jealous of everyone else. It's like... Brad's brother gets to live with his girlfriend (in their mother's house)... numerous friends who live with their boyfriends/girlfriends in their own place...
A friend called up the other day... said that he was in the air force already (he was going to go in with Brad but decided not to wait!) and he is back with his wife and they are starting their life off again.
I know it won't take him long to lose the weight he needs to - but it is so hard listening to these people talk about how they get to be with their boyfriend... when I have been spending an hour and a half just trying to call my husband... at HIS house because his brother is online!
I'll get over this eventually - because he WILL get in... but it's just frustraiting in the meantime and I wanted to vent.