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aggrivated..Im using this to vent haha

So due to some unfortunate issues my fiance and I have come across, we had to move in with his parents. They have 2 spare bedrooms so they said fine. The thing is i cant stand his father. I appreciate everything of him letting us stay there and everything. Its just that he will come home from work and complain about anything and everything. Sean and I allow him to use our computer and our internet (that we are paying for) as well as clean the house when hes not home, make sure coffee is on for him when he gets home, walk his dog WHICH I GAVE HIM FOR CHRISTMAS, do the laundry, we do everything when were not working.
Today for instance, food was spilt on my blanket, it was to late to have it done washing in time for us to go to bed, so we borrowd an extra blanket that no one uses. But oh, tonight he wanted that blanket and hes so angry that were here. Since weve been here, the floor squeeking has become MY fault, the reason he hates his life, is my fault. I have become the scapegoat for anything that goes wrong in this house.
This family is so crazy. I cant take another day. I feel this burning feeling when he comes home. I cant take another day of living here i dont know what to do.
You may think im over dramatic but im not. He uses my computer to download porn. His wife whom i love to death, let me know that she was a lesbian and plans on leaving him in Sept.
I cant see how a family can never go out of the house. His wife hasnt left her room in 3 years due to "anxiety" problems and plays games online all day. His mom pays all of his bills, and has alot of money saved up and complains everyday about how he never has any money. He hates his mom, which i cant see how he hates her.
If i touch something of his, hes like a child and wants it. Even if he hasnt looked at it or touched it since the day hes had it, he than wants it beacuse someone else has it. OH MY LORD, i need to leave this house.
Im litterally going crazzy. I cant take it another day here. I cant put on a happy face anymore. And theres no talking to this man. Ive tried. THe dog i bought him came down with a bad allergic reaction and has lost all of her hair. Do you think he takes care of her? no. Big mistake on my part. I thought he would be resposible to care for her. Her nails are HUGE and the poor dog needs someone to love her. Ud think that his wife would take care of her since shes home all day, No. Im the only one that cares for her. i want to call someone to have her taken away to a better home which i plan on doing when we get outa here.
I used to like his father. But now that the cause of everything going wrong in the house is ME and him acting like a child, i just cant stand it anymore. Im in tears because i just am so frustrated at this man and i cant do anything about it.
Well, that helped a little, letting it all out. AH

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post #2 of 2 (permalink) Old 05-03-2006, 10:57 AM
 
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Ugh, that sucks. I can relate a bit -- Erik's father has blamed any change Erik's made that he didn't like on me. They went about a year not talking and man did I get the brunt of it. So I totally understand your issues -- but I don't have to LIVE with them! Good luck coping with that.
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