To be honest Junipera, you can say what you want. I know that I do not have the capabilities to provide the right environment for my cat anymore. And it's not just me that I need to consider. I also have a partner, and housemates to think about aswell. Alongside thinking very hard about what is best for my cat.
I don't WANT to rehome her, I HAVE to. It is already breaking my heart, and has been a VERY difficult decision, without strangers who know next to nothing about me or my circumstances, or my pet, getting sanctimonious and holier-than-thou. You have not seen my injuries, or my partners injuries, you know nothing about the history of my cat (this level of aggression IS recent, but aggression in genral is NOT recent and has been something I have been trying to help her with for years, alongside nervousness and anxiety) and what we have tried already, you know nothing about my financial situation, nor about the level of financial help available to me, nor about my current expenditures and what I could / could not cut back on.
So thank you, for your less than helpful comments. You'll forgive me if I ignore them completely.