Re: Any tactful way to critique parenting?
Its a shame that you can't video tape her interacting with the kids as you described. Seeing it would make a huge impact.
Any chance of a Mother's Day Out program for him? It might help.
Also, our school district has parenting classes. They do have one on dealing with two year olds, which could be a great resource for her.
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