So here is the issue I'm running into with my kitten Bandit.
Over this summer I was all over Europe for a singing tour with my chorus. I had to leave him with a friend for 2 1/2 months, which was traumatizing for me, so I can't imagine what it must have been like for him.
Since then, we moved across town, to a new apartment with a new roommate and her cat (about 1.5-2 years old)
Bandit has become very distant, doesn't sit with me, won't sleep with me, but will sleep with the roommate, doesn't hang out in the same room as me, barely lets me touch him.
Are there steps I can take to rebond with my cat? This whole situation makes me so sad