I am not sure my male cat even likes me. I took him off the street when he was about 6 months old. He wasn't totally feral because a neighbor fed him but he wouldn't come near or anything. I kept him in the room and did the whole taming thing for about 2+ weeks. He eventually let me pet him and brush him and seemed fine. His mom was pushing him away and he seemed to really like my attention. I played with him, etc. He loves it outside and spends most of his time out there. Now he eats here twice a day, sleeps here alone and gives me a hello meow now and then. Once in awhile he will sit on my lap for his sake. If I pet him he goes to bite me but doesn't. If I walk with clunky loud shoes he runs from me. If he thinks I am going to close him in, he runs from me. Even when I put the food down he waits several feet away or under the table and doesn't eat until I walk away. I am always nice to him. I talk to him nicely. I just don't get it.