I thought I'd start a new thread about this problem. One of my sweet ferals was killed by a car but his little female buddy is still coming around. Problem is a big tom who has taken over. I don't know if he belongs to anyone but he appeared several weeks ago. I don't mind feeding him but he is scaring my little female feral and she now sits across the street and just looks at my house and won't come to eat because the tom is always lurking around. I set up a trap but he's too smart for it and all I've trapped is a possum. I've shooed him away but he's getting bolder and bolder. At first he would run when he saw me but now he just backs up a bit and holds his ground and yells. I've sprayed him with water but he isn't about to leave. I am so upset about it because my female is not being fed because of him. In addition, she has now another cat that I think is one of her kittens because it has the docked ear. I thought all the kittens had been adopted out to good homes but maybe something happened and he is now back with mommy. Anyway they both are scared of the tom. Any suggestions?