You are right, he REALLY doesn't get it. No matter what I say I will be the bad guy or he will minimize my concern. I even said to him "How are we ever going to go away for more than a weekend now?" and he says "Well we have the automatic feeders and we can get another one. They will end up being outside cats too and can always go out and look for food if we are gone for an extra day"! NOTHING will change his mind.Mapper,
OMG! He REALLY isn't getting it!