Ok I admit I sometimes go overboard when it comes to pampering my baby, but theres somthing I want badly for her im just unsure where to get it. I want a black satin cat collar with rhinestone letters spelling out her name. It can't be just any collar it has o be 100% safe too, which is where im running into trouble finding one. I have seen them on Ebay etc and while they SAID they were safe, how can I know for sure?