I just got a new kitten on Thursday. Well my other cat hates the kitten. There is no actual fighting but Sage is upset and hisses and scratches US when we try to pet her. She'll scratch anything that's around her when the kitten is around. I've tried putting Sage into the bathroom where the kitten resides at night to get Sage used to his smell, I also tried putting the kitten on her post to get his smell on it. I've been told not to give up, but is it a hopeless situation? I know it can take a loooong time. My husband feels bad though and says he'd rather not have a new kitty if it's gonna upset Sage this much. I'm going to get some feliway diffusers and put them throughout the house, think it will help? Or am I just trying for a lost cause. I've never acutally used Feli-way so I don't know what to expect.