I've been feeding a female and male ferals for three years. The male talks to me and lets me pet him but the female has never shown any trust at all. She does sleep during the day on my porch which shows some trust but that's as far as it goes. When I put down her dinner she often bats at my hand with her claws out. I know she's been badly mistreated because she watches my feet all the time so I know she's been kicked. I don't know what to do about her striking out at me. I wouldn't care but her claws are out and I don't want to wind up with a scratch from her that might get infected. Any ideas?