Well we went to the shelter today to find Maleke a buddy. We found a 6 month old female (she looks like Barnaby or Psi...same colouring but has green eyes). The lady at the shelter had fostered her and her 3 siblings. She said that the kitten we want is the least affectionate but VERY playful and funny. She thinks that this kitten would be a great playmate for Maleke, but we can't expect her to be very affectionate towards us. She also said that you have to get down to her level when you walk in a room, and that she gets scared when she is picked up (she doesn't scratch or bite but it's more of a "you're going to kill me!" fear). Has anyone had a feral kitten or know how to help them to become more tame? She looks like a great match for our monkey.....I'm just not sure.