when i first held cujo in the shelter, he purred and cuddled and rubbed his head all over me. he sat in my boyfriend's lap and purred some more. we brought him home, and he refuses to cuddle!! he conned us!! he'll lay near us, or perhaps lean on us, usually by our feet, but he will not sit in our laps. although, sometimes, i'll grab him while he's sleeping and he's too tired to fight off my affection. :twisted: :wink: