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My boyfriend and I have decided to take a break, after 2 years of living together and 3 years of being together. We need to get our own lives in order before committing, and I'm unsure he's the one for me now...he has changed a lot...but that's another story.

Anyways, I have moved back home with my dad, and my boyfriend is keeping our cats until April when I will be able to afford my own apartment. My dad won't let me have my cats there, and I'm only at my mom's two days out of the week so it's pointless to keep them there. My boyfriend loves our cats too, so he doesn't mind keeping them with him in the apartment until April when we will both get our own seperate apartments.

However, it is SO hard to be without them! I miss them SO much! It hurts even more that he told me that they are starting to really warm up to him. They were always my cats, and always loved me more! I haven't lived at home in 4 years, so it's really weird being back.

Anyway, that's my story. I wish there was a way I could have my kitties back now! I visit them twice a week when my boyfriend is at work, but it's not the same!
 

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Oh that is sooo tough. Even when I go on short weekend jaunts, it tugs at my heart to leave me cats behind. Sorry to hear what you are going through - being apart from your kitties and your bf status...I hope it all works out.
 

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I go away on weekends and occasionally take extended vacations and cant believe how much I miss my little guys. Its amazing how attached one can get. April will come quick and you'll have them all to yourself. I'm sure in a very short period of time they will warm right up to you again.
 

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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. When me and my bf broke up for awhile, I took my cats with me and thank goodness my parents were somewhat ok with it. I would of missed them so bad, I won't go anywhere without them. Hope everything works out ok
 

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I"m so sorry you have to go through this. I thought everything was good between you and your bf. What happened? :( I'm sure the kitties miss you too. I hope things get better and you will be with your cats again.
 

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i'm in your same position, maleke. well, almost. my boyfriend and i are breaking up after 4 years, 2 of them living together. i decided to move to seattle, and he decided he'd rather be alone and miserable. in a couple weeks i'm moving home with my parents to save some cash, but i'm taking my cats with me.

it sucks, though, doesn't it?
 

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I'm so sorry to hear about your current situation (yours too, Faile). That is so hard.....let me know if you need to talk...I'm here. I don't know what really happened, but I am a pretty good listener. *HUGS*
 
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