My husband and I just got a sweet, nice kitten after living many years with "my" cat who came into the marriage with me. This cat and I were together 16 years, so I'm a bit rusty on the whole kitten thing. Hub is not really a "cat person," so I was very encouraged when he said he was looking forward to having "our" cat. So here she is, she's sweet and playful and very bonded to ME! I work a lot from home, so we've spent more time together than the two of them have. Will she come to love/bond with him equally? Or will she always prefer me?? thanks!