I have been caring for a cat outside who recently had babies. I'm pretty sure they're under my neighbors porch. I do plan to have her spayed and also to take the kittens in once they are old enough to be separated from their mama. I just started feeding her MAX cat kitten food canned and dry. I give her one 3oz can every night and pretty much unlimited dry food. She absolutely loves the canned food- so much that for the first time she put her paws on my lap to get the food and she's licking it off my finger! She's still pretty cautious around me, but she is doing great. Yesterday she allowed me to pet her once or twice, but she did hiss quite a few times. I do tell her no when she does this. I only try when she is distracted by eating because she would jump back if I did it any other time. Today she hissed every time. How do I get her to allow me to pet her?