So Tarō is 4 months old. I picked him up last week and I am worried his independent, fearful nature will remain the same. I am trying real hard here: being gentle 24/7, providing toys, food, cleaning his litter box on the regular. The first 4-5 nights, he yowled a lot. I ignored it and he stopped. He plays with me when he gets in the mood, but doesn't let me near him if I don't have food to give. I started hand feeding this morning (and have been giving him wet food with my fingers). He hisses sometimes, but has 0 aggression. When I am able to put my hand on him, he seems to enjoy it, but will hide later on. I am really scared he is going to stay like that. Anybody got tips or success stories with Balinese/Siamese/Orientals?