Maleke said:
...Since he was the first one here and will be the dominant cat anyways we thought it fit. I can't wait, we are going tomorrow to look!
There's no guarentee of that. Dominance isn't up to us people - it's up to the Kittens. Age, duration of time in the house, size, none of it matter. It's something else, not sure what, but I think whoever is faster and tougher. Boo was dominant until Drizzle came along. Her 9 months old, him only 8 weeks. For a while it remained Boo. Not long though. My sister was a bit of a prig about Boo being dominant, and I was fine with that despite how silly it sounded that she argue so much for one cat to be dominant. It didn't end up as such. He was smaller, yes, and there less time, but he was not as afraid of conflict, quicker, and a bit tougher too. He took control. Now? He drinks, eats, whatever, first, and she waits her turn as second. I don't understand it, I really don't care much since they get along so well, but it's not the way it was planned. So don't count on anything.