I have had my male cat (Milo) for about 6 years now. I have had him since he was a 2 months old. He is just a plain orange taby. He is the most tolerant cat I have ever met. I can play and play with him and he hardly ever gets mad. If he does try to scratch me, he usually will run away. About a month ago I adopted a small calico female (Martini). She took her time getting use to Milo, but now they seem to get along fine. Except for one thing. Sometimes Milo will not stop playing with her. He will tackle her and play bite her. When Martini has had enough, she sometimes has to really show him. By hissing and growling loudly. He just does not seem to get the message. She knows that he is the boss of the house. He will listen to me if I tell him to stop. But I have to do it repeatedly sometimes. Even spraying Milo with a water bottle that can mist water on your plants. Am I just being to impatient with these two? I just want them to get along well.