If Emmy's really hurting Maddy, Maddy would be screeching when Emmy attacks, and then run away from her to hide, then you know Emmy is being too rough. Hissing and growling are normal reactions for an older cat to a new addition, and will play "rough" to dominate the kitty to show her who's boss in the house, this is likely what is going on. If Maddy isn't too concerned with the "attacks" and still continues to play and is showing no fear of Maddy, then just sit back and enjoy the antics and don't intervene. Do you have an interactive fishing-pole type of toy like "Da Bird"? This is a good tool to play with them together, giving each one a turn at catching the "bird". This will help them get to know one other and demonstrate that you aren't showing any favoritism.