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I was looking through Neelix's papers and it lists the last name of his foster family. For those of you who foster, would you appreciate a periodic update on the kittens you foster for rescue/shelter?

I was going to call the Humane Society and ask them to contact his parent's with my email so if they want updates I can send them.

Is this weird or something you'd appreciate?

I always wished i knew who fostered Book because he was the most gentle baby ever. He never scratched hard in play or bit me. By the time he came to me he had learned that "ouch" meant he was getting too excited and he'd back right off.

Neelix is such a little lovebug, it's obvious they put a lot of effort into him and his socialization. I want them to know he's OK and very very loved already.
 

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I think they would love that!

I get to see updates of some of my foster-kittens, but mostly because I knew people who adopted some of them. I still wonder what happened to all those kittens...and I would love updates even now - 5/6 years later.
 

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I think they would love it too. Anyone who is a foster pet parent in my book is just an awesome person, to do what they do. I fostered a dog once, and I made friends with the lady she went to, so that worked out great for me. I went to visit her all the time.
 

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It seems (to me) to be a labor of love. It's not something I think I could do. To stress and care for and love these little (and big) furkids and let someone else have them.

That's why I thought perhaps they'd be interested in keeping up with how he's doing.
 

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I only fostered one little kitten (would have kept him except the cat we had at the time would have honestly killed him); when we found him a forever home, I begged them to update us. nothing. never heard from them again. I still wonder how he is doing and it has been over 10 years.
 

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I kept the bratz' foster parents updated for about two years. Cleo's mom didn't care. You couldn't have paid me to update Cinderella's former captor.
 

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I think Neelix's former foster family would be delighted to know how well he's doing, and that hes found a wonderful forever home!!:D:thumbup:
 

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They would love it I'm sure!! I have self fostered numerous cats and 3 dogs. I love getting updates. If I'm having a bad day I just go and re read some emails I get or texts and it helps. I got my yellow lab from a very high kill pound. I gave them an update on him and how well he was doing(he is my 4-H dog). They shared his story and before and after pics. Which ended up getting a few dogs adopted(they said they were unsure until they read his story). So sometimes those updates can help more than just reassuring the foster family or rescue/shelter.


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I'm also sure they would LOVE to know he was happy and well and had fur friends to play with!! I for one would love to know how my kittens are doing. When Zane and Zack were adopted I never met the people so I left a note for them on their paperwork on the pick up cage (after they are neutered the new parents pick them up from the vet suite). They never contacted me at all. I don't really worry so much as wonder how they are doing, plus I'd LOVE to see how handsome they turn out a adults.

The new mom of Lenny my orange Manx frequently sends me emails with pics and even invited us over to see him!

I think if more people realized how beneficial it is to adopt a fostered kitten they might update the foster parents more often. I think they make for VERY well adjusted cats if socialized properly in a home setting.
 
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