Ok just a little update on Toby... he was able to go to the vet right away Monday morning...I got a call from the vet later that afternoon saying that Toby has a very swollen anus (which I could already tell) they put him on a steriod medication and kept him overnight for observation. This morning the swelling went down drastically and I was able to pick him up. They gave him a bath and trimmed his fur around his butt and gave me a couple cans of prescription food for gastrointestinal issues and told me to give him a high fiber diet... his visit only cost $88 and should be good as new in a couple days... came home from work today and there were no signs of swelling at all. One of the vet techs says I was lucky to get him back because she thought he was the cutest kitten ever..and of course I agree lol He also had no URI which is also good...so looks like he will do fine for now! Thought I would update everyone!