Help! How on earth do you stop the 2 main men in your life getting jealous of each other. My husband isn't exactly the cat lover I am and he seems to be getting jealous of our kitten. He is always kind to him and will look after him but I swear he is getting jalous of kitty cuddles. Cleveland (my kitty) is really funny. whenever pete gets huggy with me, the cat is over in a second jumping up my leg to get into the cuddle. Does anyone else have this problem? How can a grown man be jealous of a 4 month old cat! Weird or what!