Recently, my baby (and I am ashamed to admit, my favourite) cat has disappeared. He is timid of strangers, but followed me around the house day and night. He is extremely curious and the only one to accidentally sneak out (3 years ago, he ran two houses away and stopped to each grass after which he came to me willingly) Barring this 5-minute outdoor adventure, Linus is an indoor-only cat, fixed and declawed - before I understood what declawing truly meant for a cat. 
He has been gone 12 days tomorrow - we have called all the vets, the Humane Society/shelter, put up 450 signs, had an advert in the paper each day, walked 2-3 hours each night within the hours of 1-5am (a radius of about 2-2.5 miles), talked to every neighbour on our block/checked backyards and sheds, and have approximately 7 people actively looking. We have also set out food every night/day (tuna, sardines, and dry food), we have sprayed the area with Feliway, set out some of his toys/blanket outside on the line, and have 2 humane traps. Nothing! Not one real sighting, despite hundreds of calls!
This town is very small, i.e., we have no problem with cat-theft or malicious behaviour (that anyone seems to recall) and short of a random raccoon or skunk, there are no predators to speak of (in all our walking, we didn't even spot a stray/loose dog). The street department also has signs posted for us (and no animals have been hit in the town for well over a month).
Is this normal for a timid, albeit overly curious cat? Do they find their own way home or can they get "lost"? These are my first cats - and my children and I are simply devastated over the possibilities. I have heard everything from "never stop looking at night" to "they come home when they want" to "they find new homes." Although we now have about 10 cats that frequent the lawn and porch (I know all the owners), Linus has not made one appearance in nearly 12 days. Does anyone have experience with this sort of thing? What usually happens/happened? I am simply desperate to have him back! (Not to mention his brother and sister kitties that are now also trying to sneak out constantly and have taken to relieving themselves all over the wood floors) Are they depressed and behaving as expected? (Not sure how to "handle" this part, except to clean up and give them lots of love and attention).
I need some advice/expertise from experienced cat lovers!
He has been gone 12 days tomorrow - we have called all the vets, the Humane Society/shelter, put up 450 signs, had an advert in the paper each day, walked 2-3 hours each night within the hours of 1-5am (a radius of about 2-2.5 miles), talked to every neighbour on our block/checked backyards and sheds, and have approximately 7 people actively looking. We have also set out food every night/day (tuna, sardines, and dry food), we have sprayed the area with Feliway, set out some of his toys/blanket outside on the line, and have 2 humane traps. Nothing! Not one real sighting, despite hundreds of calls!
This town is very small, i.e., we have no problem with cat-theft or malicious behaviour (that anyone seems to recall) and short of a random raccoon or skunk, there are no predators to speak of (in all our walking, we didn't even spot a stray/loose dog). The street department also has signs posted for us (and no animals have been hit in the town for well over a month).
Is this normal for a timid, albeit overly curious cat? Do they find their own way home or can they get "lost"? These are my first cats - and my children and I are simply devastated over the possibilities. I have heard everything from "never stop looking at night" to "they come home when they want" to "they find new homes." Although we now have about 10 cats that frequent the lawn and porch (I know all the owners), Linus has not made one appearance in nearly 12 days. Does anyone have experience with this sort of thing? What usually happens/happened? I am simply desperate to have him back! (Not to mention his brother and sister kitties that are now also trying to sneak out constantly and have taken to relieving themselves all over the wood floors) Are they depressed and behaving as expected? (Not sure how to "handle" this part, except to clean up and give them lots of love and attention).
I need some advice/expertise from experienced cat lovers!