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1.2K views 18 replies 11 participants last post by  audrey-mae  
#1 ·
Hi everyone, I have lurked off and on, and I know Heidi n Q from a horse forum. I am a long time cat lover, we have had cats my whole life. Normally we only had 1 or 2, but right now we have 10! We hope to never have this many at once again haha.

See the problem is that our neighbor used to be a spay/neuter coalition and has probably 100 fixed cats running on her 65 acres. Some are totally feral, some clearly had some handling at one point but gone wild to some degree in the mean time. Its been like the hobbits out here, after the first one adopted us it was like he said to us "Thank you for letting me in, but I have a couple friends waiting out in the woods, would it be ok if they came in?" And then the new one asks the same thing haha. Its really fascinating having so many, I love learning the psychology of a large cat pack. Anyway, blah blah, here are some photos of my cats!

This is Doing. Sadly he is no longer with us. He just never came home one day. While he was only about 8 years old, I like to think he died in his sleep, all happy and curled up. More likely, he got ate by a coyote or something terrible like that. He was born feral, and always was a little timid despite his giant size. He was a great hunter and very appreciative, the best gifts he brought us were a bunny and a grey digger squirrel LOL!
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This is Mr., he is my sisters cat. The people my parents bought this farm from left him here! Until I moved out here I had no idea people just left their pets for the new home owners... He was also a feral kitten. He is seriously so obese now, its really sad. He cant reach his back to groom himself so we have to give him baths ever other day or so. Its scary because he only loves my sister and is a mean SOB to anyone else haha. That doesnt stop him from curling up in my bed though.
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Honna, my moms cat, also once a feral. He adopted us the first winter we lived here, and spent it living under a chair on the porch. We made him a cozy bed and he loved it. He is an indoor/outdoor cat now, but is still really timid, and really untrustworthy because he is a fear biter. We love him anyway though!
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This is Maddy. My mom took him, and 4 others (Bunny who is gone, bob, and poochie) from a friend of hers. He is not wild at all.
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Poochie is a very old girl. She is missing a lot of teeth, has pillow feet, and bad hips. If you dont know what that is, google it. Its really sad. I dont know her story as she was a stray when my moms friend started feeding her. Poochie has clearly been physically abused, I have been around a lot of wild and timid cats, but none have acted like she does. You have to be very careful how you move around her or you will send her into a panic.
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Bob is also ancient, we dont know how old he really is, besides older than dirt haha. He has 6 teeth left lmao. He is one of the most annoying cats in the world, he really is terrible, and while he has some really endearing, lovable qualities, he is pretty hard to live with. I guess that is just kind of a given with anything that is as old as he is LOL. I just have faith that he cant live all that much longer, so I will just keep loving him until he goes.
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This is Kiki. He was also a feral kitten, and had very minimal handling. I spent 6 months wooing him, and it was my sister who finally touched him for the first time.
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This is Tommy. He is our newest feral. He has been here for goign on 3 years, but in the last year he has made a lot of progress. I got him trapped and neutered about 4 months ago, and he has come leaps and bounds since! He TOUCHED me for the first time today!!!!! He had to touch my finger tips to get to some smoked salmon on the floor, and then he ate off my hand! I will be petting him in no time! He is my first, truly feral cat I have tamed. I do not think he has had any handling at all. Here he is in his bed on our couch on the porch.
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#3 ·
Yeah more haha.

This is Deeni! He is such a ham, he is one of the silliest cats ever, he is such a denis the menace personality lol. He was not feral, but did come from my neighbor. When he introduced himself, he met me at the door of my barn, gave me a giant jump up rub, and has been entertaining us ever since haha.
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This is Raja, my pride and joy. He came from my neighbor too, but he was never feral either. Him and 8 other cats had been LOCKED in an abandon trailer. Raja was the skinniest cat I have ever seen when he adopted me. He came down here about 2 days after she let him go at her place. He is the most devoted cat. He is really smart too. He is the top cat on the property too lol. He is such an amazing cat, I am really enamored with him lol. I could go on and on about him lol, but I wont even start.
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Next up is Bitty! She was never feral either. SHe is starting to get up there in age, about 15 now I think, but you would never know it. I kittynapped her from my dad quite a few years ago haha. Shes the queen of the house. She has her own lazyboy chair with a heating pad, she never leaves the chair haha.
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And last but not least (I think I got everyone now) is Other. Sadly, she was put down last year due to kidney failure. She was the craziest cat I have ever met. She had been spayed, but was very feral and mean. She is one of my most favorite cats I have ever had. She would attack hands at any chance she got, she would chase people out of my (her) barn if she didnt like them. She would chase the horses, she ruled the barn with an iron paw. She would jump on my lap and hold me hostage as I was afraid to make her get up haha! She was just so special, its hard to explain in just a few words. I still miss her so much, the barn will never be the same with out her. This is a photo of her petting herself. She would pet her own face when I would sweet talk her LOL>
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#9 ·
What beautiful cats and great stories.

I love Bob's cool face stripe, but what can I say about Raja? Black cats rule! :blackcat
 
#13 ·
Heidi they have funny faces huh! lol

Thank you Des

marie black cats do rule!!

Tortie thank you!

Leazie and October thank you. My mom is not as patient as I am, she gets really frustrated with some of the cats sometimes, but we work through it lol. I have MANY photos, I am big photo taker lol, so you can expect plenty of more photos from me! haha
 
#17 ·
I also find it interesting that these kitties are allowed to *be* who they are and yet you still are able to maintain a good relationship with them. Do you work deliberately to 'tame' or 'socialize' them, or do they make most of the overtures themselves?

My own ferals I begin by letting them be who they are and just get used to me being around. Then I slowly start to encroach into their comfort bubble until I am allowed to be close. Then I slowly infringe more and more until I am touching them and they are allowing it. Working slowly and deliberately towards being able to handle them.
I'd be interested to hear how you have been able to establish relationships with them. I am always looking to learn new skills and you may have some you can teach me. Share, please?
 
#19 ·
Heidi really its some of each! I think often, by the time I saw them, they had been watching us for a while. Winter time is def. when the feral cats get the most tame. They smell the food smells in the house rule over their fear lol.

Doing, our first once feral cat, was a nearly adult kitten when we got him. He had been tamed by a friends sister though, and he was pretty poorly socialized. She had had him since he was like 12 weeks old, so he wasnt super super wild or anything. He was always just really timid in general. He was good with us, but terrified or anyone and anythign else.

Honna the fear biter, was the first one who came in from the woods. He has a hard time with other cats, so my neighbors place with 100 cats was clearly too much for him. He just wanted to hang under the house at first but we lured him out with food. He found a towel under a chair on the porch and called it home haha. From there he was real easy because I would go hang out iwth him when I would smoke (back before I quit). He has really bonded with my mom, he is totally her cat. Unfortunately, because of this, she is always the brunt of his fear biting. Just last night he bit her on the arm when she startled him :cry: I dont trust him a bit and very rarely pet him.

With Kiki I would always find him right on the edge of the woods hanging in some tall grass. I would go sit as close as he would let me and talk to him a little, and though I dont remember, I am sure I started bringing him some food. I was pretty eager to get him handled because he had the worst ear mites, half his head was bald.

Other was the first really really feral one I tamed, it took a year before she would really let me be around her and look at her lol. When she first came around you couldnt get with in 15 ft of her with out her yowling like a banshee at you. I never forced the issue with her, and eventually she just got used to me, and then accepted me as hers, as much as she could accept anyone. Though, like I said, she never really got that tame. She is the only cat we have had that never came inside, she just had no interest. Her bed was a thick, folded up blanket on the couch outside that she would burrow into the middle of, though the barn was her territory, few creatures were allowed in haha.

Though Poochie came from my moms friend, and was a stray, she had lived here for 3-4 months before we got to touch her, and still another 4 or so months before she would come inside. We did kind of press the issue with her because we could tell she had some health problems that needed addressing. She doesnt get around well at all (will have to be put to sleep in the next year for sure) and only gets up for the necessities.

Tommy, the one I am working on now, will be the first really feral cat that I will tame down to be a real people kitty. He has been here 3 years or so, and only in the last year did he even tolerate the sight of me. He has awlays been coming in to eat, but would sneak in. Since I got him neutered, he has tamed SO much! He comes in through the door when I open it for him now haha. He sings to me for food, and now I PET him!!! I have had to steal pets from him, and have about 9 times now!!! He knows I have been doign it, and turned and watched me the last 2 times. He hates it, but will learn to love it I know!