I adopted a cat from my local humane society a bit over a week ago. We were warned that he kept trying to escape his cage, and that he was a former stray. They recommended to give him a sanctuary room to hide in as he got used to us. However, from the start he was social and wasn't hiding at all. He hated being stuck in the sanctuary room and tried to escape whenever we opened the door. We let him out soon after.
After a few days he discovered the front door. Whenever we approached it he would bolt towards the door and lay in front of it meowing. He would also rub against the windows and stare outside them. It's become hard to enter and leave the house because he runs for the door and tries to leave. I bought a harness for him, but it was too big and he escaped. My cat is normally very friendly, but when he escapes he starts running away from the house at top speed and only when he pauses can I pick him up. I usually need to lure him to me with food, but sometimes even that doesn't work.
How should I approach this behaviour? I want to let him out on his own, but I can't get a cat door, and to be honest, I'm not sure he will come back if we let him out. He absolutely hates being trapped, but is very social. I thought the harness training was going well, but if he is going to escape it I can't do it with him.
tl;dr: My cat seems desperate to escape the house and I don't know what to do with him. I can't get a cat door, but even if I do I'm not sure he would come back.
After a few days he discovered the front door. Whenever we approached it he would bolt towards the door and lay in front of it meowing. He would also rub against the windows and stare outside them. It's become hard to enter and leave the house because he runs for the door and tries to leave. I bought a harness for him, but it was too big and he escaped. My cat is normally very friendly, but when he escapes he starts running away from the house at top speed and only when he pauses can I pick him up. I usually need to lure him to me with food, but sometimes even that doesn't work.
How should I approach this behaviour? I want to let him out on his own, but I can't get a cat door, and to be honest, I'm not sure he will come back if we let him out. He absolutely hates being trapped, but is very social. I thought the harness training was going well, but if he is going to escape it I can't do it with him.
tl;dr: My cat seems desperate to escape the house and I don't know what to do with him. I can't get a cat door, but even if I do I'm not sure he would come back.